Little Decisions
I happened across this old tweet of mine today and realised that I had written it exactly two years ago to the day. When you find something like that, you can’t help but think what your life would be like if things had gone differently.
My life of two years ago wasn’t a bad one. I was a lawyer working for The Walt Disney Company in Tokyo. It was a good job, that I enjoyed, in the field I trained in, and in an interesting country. All in all, I had a really nice life. While I’d like to be able to tell you all that there was a “piece missing” or that I hated my old life, the fact of the matter is I was really very comfortable doing what I was doing and quite content. So much so that this tweet was actually about the second MasterChef audition I was invited to.
The first audition was in my home town of Adelaide and it was scheduled while I was supposed to be visiting Cuba. Having planned the holiday for months, I declined the audition and went on holiday instead. When I returned to Japan, I called the producers and asked them if there were any other auditions that I could go to and they invited me to come to Sydney. Again, I ummed and ahhed and tried to decided whether I would travel all the way from Tokyo for a long-shot chance at something I wasn’t even really sure if I wanted to do.
In the end, the only way I could look at it was to say “Why not?”
Why not go to the audition? Why not give it a shot? If I fail, my worst-case scenario would be that I continue on doing what I’m doing and I have an interesting story to tell. The best-case scenario, of course, would be that I get through the audition and I have another, more interesting decision to make.
As is no-doubt obvious, I ended up going to the audition, having a ball, and getting through to the next round. The rest is history. There were lots of other moments and other decisions (and actually, I pulled out of the show at least 2 more times over the following few months – but that’s a story for another time), but this was the first one. Every single thing in my life would now be different if I had made that one little decision differently. I wouldn’t have had the amazing experience I have had over the past two years, the new career I have now, and a future that I’m incredibly excited about.
It didn’t seem like an important decision at the time – it was tiny, insignificant and almost laughable – but it was the first one, and it turned into one of the most important decisions I’ve ever made. I don’t think that all the important decisions in life present themselves with banners, fanfare and prancing horses. Sometimes it’s the little decisions that reach further and wider than you’d ever imagine.
I’m sure that right at this very moment there’s someone else, somewhere in Australia (or elsewhere in the world) that’s trying to decide whether or not they should audition for MasterChef or take a different kind of new step. Who knows, maybe in a few months they’ll be the one centre-stage when the gold glitter rains down.
That is so cool. I’ve never thought little decisions like than can Change everything.
This blog made me realize that little decisions are as important as the big ones.
That was a wise decision Adam, I think sometime we should take risk in our life , who knows what will happens. And you used to work for Walt Disney, wow, that was so cool !! 🙂
Greetings from Taiwan!!! Hello Adam, season 2 of Masterchef Australia was aired in Taiwan earlier this year and my husband (who is not interested in cooking) and I fell in love with the show. I like the atmosphere or vibe among the contestants. Though you were competing with each other, at the same time you were making friends and learning new skills and sharing the passion about the same thing. You guys really are talented!!! What also makes me feel interested is that there were many “lawyer contestants”. I majored in law and is working as a legal in a local company now, I guess that’s why I have more feelings about them. 😛
Anyway, I enjoyed your blog and just want to let you know you have fans here in Taiwan.
That’s pretty amazing, isn’t it? Things have certainly changed for you in a big way! I’ve been making lots of little decisions in my life and I’m hoping they’ll amount to something awesome for me, too.
Have you ever read a Richard Bach book? He talks about decisions and making them or not making them and how his life would be different! Amazing that you made such a great decision 🙂
Adam…as I sit here in the computer room at my hotel in Bali…I fervently scan the net looking for inspiration for some room temperature meals I can cook up for the first round of auditions for Masterchef Australia 4. My beautiful food bibles still sitting on my bedside table back in Perth….I try and collate some dregs of creativity online.
Whilst doing this….I have thoughts in the back of my mind about how crazy I might feel; retrospectively of course…regarding this decision to leave my children in Bali…to holiday with their grandmother…after such a well planned, long awaited holiday….’just’ to fly home to Perth to audition. Serendipitously, I find your blog.
What can I say? Thanks for the inspiration 🙂 It wasn’t the inspiration I came looking for, but sometimes the universe speaks to us in words we need to hear, when we need to hear them 🙂
Makes one think… thanks Adam!